Velma Watkins Louisville Kentucky. My husband “came clean” when I filed for divorce…..5 years with Velma…. I was newly married, in a new city and pregnant with our first child. He was very busy on the golf course every night! The truth is, she divorced her husband and my husband was sleeping with her every afternoon in Her home, while she begged him to leave me…. They also traveled together, all the time, due to work……