I met him online. We have dated for long enough as I have since learned he is on many dating sites and is fishing for new women on Craigslist almost daily. He has had multiple women that I know of in the past year, including a gang bang he hosted at Rangers Inn in Arlington, and offers all drinks on him for any woman willing to go to the strip clubs with him. He advertises he is a Dom and a BBC and looks for submissive women with any relationship status. This is all the fantasy part of his life. I have also learned he has not been single since 2009 and he has been engaged since 2011. Which is the reality part of his life because she lives with him, she spends holidays with him and his family, and she is the one he goes home to every night when he is done playing in his fantasy life.