This sad excuse for a human Tosha Groves is my cousin. We weren’t really close, but befriended me and I trusted her and turned to her everytime I was hurt. She knew all of my secrets, all of my insecurities. And what else does she know now? How my man was in bed. I mean let’s be honest, it wasn’t really that great anyways. But she took the last shred of friendship and family validity away from me.