Let me start by saying that my husband shares more than equal fault in this situation because she didn’t make a commitment to me, he did. This nasty female has pursued my husband for 17 years. Unfortunately I was injured in an automobile accident in 2000 leaving me wheelchair bound. This women has known about me from day 1. She has made comments to him such as,”leave her because she’s crippled now”, “she can’t do nothing for you anymore” and many other phrases that degrade me in attempt to get him. FOR THE RECORD THESE ARE ALL LIES. Her father use to date his mother so this was always her avenue to him. I caught him cheating with this women about 9 years ago. I guess I should have left him then but we decided to work things out. Not to mention we have 3 children between us. Since then we have purchased a home together further intertwining our lives as a family. Well, over the summer we hit a rough patch in our relationship once we unexpectedly became grandparents from our oldest daughter. During this time I fell ill and had to be hospitalized. While explaining my symptoms my husband started to try to diagnosis me himself with crazy conclusions. I kept asking him was there something he needed to tell me. He kept saying no. Once I was in the emergency room I told him to go home with the children, I’ll call him once I’m ready to be released. Once he was in the car he called me to confess that he cheated with her again and she had contacted him to tell him that she had a STD and he needed to be checked out. RAGE is not a strong enough word to explain what I was feeling. Not only did you cheat on me AGAIN but you didn’t even protect yourself OR ME and now I’m in the hospital having to ask the doctors to check me for STD’s. You put my life in danger for a nasty piece of ***!? So now what? 17 years, 3 kids, 1 grand. Thank *** I had a clean bill of health but he didn’t. His response is nothing but sorry’s but you can’t come back from that. I spoke to this women and all she could say was “yes, I gave him the STD”. They are both sad human being. As I said in the beginning, I fault him more but their is a special place in **** for a women that will continue to deal with a married man especially using tactics to tare down the wife and destroy a family. Enclosed is a photo of this homewrecker.
