The following is all documented by court recorded testimony or deposition. The truth and accuracy can be verified by anyone. Many of the statements made below are also supported by social media of Tana Lacy. In September of 2011, a husband attended addiction recovery. This husband stated he did not want a divorce. The husband had a desire to finally overcome a *********** and *** addiction he had been struggling with his entire life. The husband had a previous affair and promised he would never repeat that same mistake again. During recovery there was a period of abstinence that left this husband vulnerable to an attack by a chronic mistress. Tana Lacy’s relentless pursuit of a second husband during his recovery has harmed his wife, innocent children, extended family members and friends leaving many in excessive debt for the rest of thier lives. Tragically, this husband was introduced to chronic mistress Tana Lacy at a bar in October 2011. The husband then stopped attending addiction recovery. The husband tried to break off the affair in February 2012. However, the marriage predator Tana Lacy was relentless. Tana Lacy continued to have contact with this husband manipulating him and taking advantage of him. Tana Lacy admits in open court she has received marital assets from this husband in the form of vacations to San Francisco, Portland, day trips to coastal beach houses, Hilton hotel accommodations, fine dining, car maintenance, jewelry, cell phone equipment, flowers, books, chocolates and other gifts. Tana Lacy admits to taking over 100 vacations with this husband in less than five years. In October 2014, Tana Lacy insisted the husband shop for his daughter at the Goodwill while during that same month she took thousands of martial assets. Tana Lacy’s previous affair child and parents also have taken marital assets in the form of fine dining and gifts. Tana Lacy admitted that she was aware this husband never provided any of these things for his wife and children. Tana Lacy’s very large appearance is further evidence she has been well fed and dressed in clothes from the ‘Fit for a Queen’ clothing boutique store. Over the course of the five year affair thousands of dollars of martial assets have been disposed by Tana Lacy. The husband never returned to addiction recovery. Tana Lacy insisted that the husband divorce his wife so she could remarry him. Tana Lacy’s demands for remarriage cost the husband and his wife thousands of dollars more on litigation fees. The husband and his wife are in excessive debt for life due to the evil and selfish attack on their marriage and family by Tana Lacy. An affair makes a parent unavailable to children. At the time of Tana Lacy’s attack, the husband’s sons were at an age when time with their father was vital in their development. Tana Lacy’s demand of a husband’s time left innocent unattended by him to start fires in his residence, become addicted to ***********, prematurely sexually active, drink alcohol, smoke marijuana and cigarettes, expulsion from school, skipping school, failing school and dropping out of school. Two of husband’s children got in trouble with the law. The oldest son was assaulted and suffered facial injuries. Another son overdosed on drugs and was brought to the hospital by ambulance. The husband was unaware of both of these events when they occurred because he was detained by Tana Lacy. These innocent children we’re denied counseling and follow-up medical care. Many children’s lives have been completely destroyed by Tana Lacy. The time and money that should have been spent on and with children was stolen by Tana Lacy. The adult children today still use drugs and didn’t graduate from high school. The adult children suffer from depression caused watching their father give everything thier family has to Tana Lacy. A child can’t understand why Tana Lacy won’t buy all of these things for herself. Three counselors testified during trial that the children’s acting out behavior is a result of being exposed to their father having an affair with Tana Lacy. The youngest child is so traumatized by Tana Lacy that five years later she still requests to pretend Tana Lacy is dead. This young girl comes home from visiting father exhausted from pretending to be polite to Tana Lacy. This child is afraid of being punishment by her father if she tells the truth. A counselor informed the husband years ago that his youngest child has suffered emotional distress from being exposed to Tana Lacy. At the tender age of eight this little girl threatened to cut herself because the emotional pain caused by Tana Lacy was so deep. Later, this little girl nearly failed the 5th grade, daydreams in class, can’t focus or sleep alone at night. Tana Lacy forces a little girl to perform her job cleaning offices instead of allowing this child to attend school and church events. Tana Lacy still forces herself on this child causing further distress. Tana Lacy cornered the 11 year old daughter in a bathroom and performed a strip search to check her genital area. Instead of contacting the child’s mother to care for her needs, Tana Lacy humiliated this sweet innocent little girl. Any wife or mother watching her husband and children deteriorate under the attack of a marriage predator would be harmed. Since Tana Lacy attacked her second marriage and family, the wife had two breast tumors removed, adrenal failure, and multiple anxiety attacks to the point the wife is now disabled with PTSD. It is really shocking that Tana Lacy can do so much financial, mental, emotional and physical damage to adults and innocent children. The purpose of my post is to warn other wives and mothers to protect their marriages and children from Tana Lacy. Addicted to the ‘affair high’ Tana Lacy will continue to seek out married men for the challenge in order to validate her low self esteem. Tana Lacy attended the same church as this husband and wife attended. The wife was naive to believe her husband was safe around single women like Tana Lacy. The wife wishes somebody would have warned her about this marriage predator. The wife had no idea Tana Lacy had an affair with a previous man and a child conceived with a married man. The wife had no idea Tana Lacy had been rejected by all single men and was desperate to find a married man to take care of her. The wife had no idea Tana Lacy was very skilled with the ability to psychologically control married men. Under deposition, people listening to Tana Lacy speak were terrified of this woman. Tana Lacy’s appearance is repulsive and she compensates with tactics that resemble an Alfred Hitchcock movie. Tana Lacy plays on a husband’s low self esteem and depression during a time in his life when he is trying to heal. Tana Lacy lies to married men to get what she wants from them. Destroying a man’s marriage, wife, children and putting him in excessive debt for life is not love; it is murder with a prison sentence. Even more frightening is the men being controlled by Tana Lacy have no idea they have lost everything. Tana Lacy’s most recent victims now have no home, no retirement and are in our mid-forties. It is unlikely wife will be able to work again due to her disability caused by Tana Lacy. This husband will be forced to provide for his previous wife and two households the rest of his life. The husband has no hope of retiring because of Tana Lacy. The husband will work the rest of his life to suppor the mistress Tana Lacy and the wife permanently disabled by Tana Lacy’s attack.
