Steven Douglas Wilson — San Diego, California

We were in a very strong relationship for 2 yrs, 4 mos. when I finally found evidence of what I thought was going on when I caught his nasty propositional text a few months in-he was doing his ex-girlfriend on the side for the ENTIRE TIME WE WERE TOGETHER. Who is a stripper (didn’t know she was until revealed to me by means other than his letting me know, of course). She got my number from his phone at the very beginning of his and my friendship saying he is a liar and not to trust him. Silly me, I eased into a relationship anyway, very cautiously. This was actually my first real relationship, one in which we constantly talked about kids, marriage, and forever. I also told him from DAY 1 that cheating on me was an instant deal-breaker. So he denied, denied, denied the whole time when I would suspect foul play. Then I found clear evidence, so I sent him on his way with his stuff and never spoke a single word to him again, to this day and until forever. This stripper-ex has so little respect for him that she was more than willing to have a conversation with me and tell me anything I wanted to know. Me: “He told me he never said ‘I love you’ within the 2 yrs you were together.” Her: “Actually I was pretty shocked at how quickly he said it to me, within 4 months of our relationship or so.” Just one example of his disgusting approach to life. But here’s the real kicker: he was the most devastated a human being possibly could be. And I was relieved I found out now rather than later, now realizing he did me the hugest favor by letting me off the hook. He was never good enough for me. When there are too many red flags, ladies-run the other way and stop trying to convince yourself that you can and should overlook them!!!!!! Like having stolen from his friends so that he had none left from high school age or earlier, setting fire to an area of land as a child, and shoplifting as recently as age 19. These are tells that you must not take lightly. Good luck that you never have to go through this if you’re reading about your potential boyfriend at this moment. Let me now take the place of that disgusting ***** and let you know-Steven Douglas Wilson is and always will be a liar, cheater, and filled with so much self-loath that it causes a self-fulfilling prophecy of ******** up anything good in his life so he can continue to think so little of himself. R.U.N.-run