On the surface he initially seems like a good guy that simply has had the bad fortune of getting tricked into a few bad relationships & unwanted children. He seeks women who tend to sympathize with his “pain” of being forced to be a single father or bad childhood. He will bolt despite declarations of love (dedicate songs to you too?) after “realizing” you dont belong together. Happens after youve gotten pregnant or moved in together or otherwise made some other massive commitment and he doesnt need you. Hes paranoid, will check your computer, text messages & phone. He cannot stand you having male friends tho he communicates w/ex-gfs, female coworkers and lovers DAILY and sees no problem with it. He NEVER puts his phone down, addicted to FB, gambles & has a volatile temper. Brags hes never hit a woman but will demean you verbally. MAJOR LIES: 1) R.H. 1 night stand that never let him see his son and then sabotaged his relationship so his son requested his step dad adopt him. Truth: They dated for 2 yrs before she got pregnant, he left her at 12 weeks to join the Navy promising to return and marry her. She found out later he had married R.J. Hes seen this son less than 20 times, doesnt TRY contact him.2)R.J. exwife magically left him after cheating & he has no idea why. Truth: she was older than him and tired of his controlling behavior and having to pay for everything.3) A.L. his allegedly cheating/**** addicted exgf from FL. Shes friends with his mother & apparently ignorant to the fact he moved on much earlier. Truth: He lived with her while dating next wife K.L. & flings. Will hide the fact they routinely communicate & they have pictures of eachother. His excuse: “Shes a **** addict but good person” & needs his support.4) K.F. from his home state, carried on a long distance fling with until he got caught.5) K.L. single mom from GA he married (allegedly for her daughter) so she would follow him to DC & she tricks him into kids. Truth: It was a mutual planned pregnancy with twins, she catches him lying & 4 months later decides he doesnt want it &leaves.Doesnt make effort to be a dad & argues CS he has to pay.6) M.B single mom he starts seeing immediately after separating. Asks her to marry him then left to “find” himself b/c hes never lived alone.Truth: Doesnt tell anyone they date for almost a yr or move in together & left when he didnt need her and got caught repeatedly lying about communicating with exs & spying on her.