Extremely manipulative – checks phone and all social media, controls who you speak to, where you go, what you wear. BUT spoils you at the same time with thoughtful surprises and caring for your family and friends, so that you don’t doubt his control.Lived with my family for 2 years, whilst cheating on his girlfriend of 8 years for the first year of our relationship, and then on me with his other girlfriend in Sweden for the next year. Pretends to be away with work as he is in the army – only one of two nights so nobody knows about each other.