Please keep my identity anonymous. What would you tell someone in this scenario: The couple has been together for nearly 25 years. Said couple separates and wife files for legal separation to sort out bills, parenting, etc. The husband immediately files for full-blown divorce. Divorce drags out for months and months, husband wants to reconcile, the wife is reluctant but trying. A couple of months before the divorce is final wife finds out through court discovery of another woman in the picture…..pleads with a said woman that her husband and she have been working on things. Another woman goes on with an all out war on the wife. We are talking vandalism, computer hacking, phone spamming, email hacking, stalking, true bunny boiler stuff. The wife backs off wishes them both good divorces are final. After six months of pure **** with the ex-husband and another woman, the ex-husband wants to reconcile once again. The ex-wife is willing to work on a healthy relationship. Ex other woman is ****** and proceeds with all the above. A year and a half later ex another woman will not leave the family alone but is very manipulative and sly about things. The family has been working very hard to overcome the past and move forward but having trouble because ex another woman likes to hang around. It’s not so much the betrayal because the past is the past. Both were kinda lost in all of it. It has more to do with moving forward, trust, feeling secure. It’s not such a secure feeling with the ex other woman popping up right and left. They work together, have common friends, etc. He has made it very clear to her that their relationship is over. She has been pleaded with them to leave them alone but continues to keep in contact with his family, makes her presence known in his life as much as possible. It has the ex-wife very uncomfortable that she is hanging around because for some reason there is still hope, or he is doing something to lead her on…
