When it comes to this Paul Johnson, perhaps you need to ask yourself why has he had so many failed relationships? It’s not the ALL the woman’s fault. However, he won’t take any blame at all for anything. It was always the woman that did him wrong. De he said his ex-wife slept around with a friend of theirs. One girlfriend wouldn’t control her kids and allowed them to speak bad to him. Other girlfriends cheated on him. He even said to the one girlfriend oh I was bad in bed. Well, now he did need help with taking ******, but when you eat a high diet in fat that pill won’t help with anything. Plus all the blood pressure medications doesn’t help. But then he lives on Pizza Rolls, fast food, hostess cakes, candy, Soda pop, chips. Can’t have a healthy body that way. And he needs 10 hrs of sleep too. Lets not forget that. He also has said how he dislikes going to his parents house because they favor his step sister Dawn and they play cards and ignores him. But hey, if he needs a favor to borrow the truck, then hes there. But when things go wrong with the truck he wants to hurry and get it back so he doesn’t have to sink his own money into it. He is always wanting something for nothing. I have had to follow him to the mechanics so many times, take him back home, take him back up there, get him home again pick up his car. I never got 1.00 for my gas for all those trips. Not to mention all the trips I had to make because he didn’t want to use his car when we would hang out on the weekends. He used his vehicle two times in a year and half. All my money for gas, for food. Not a single penny paid back to me. So what do you call that? Being used. Plus he liked using my Moms and I Sams club and Costco membership.. We never got a penny towards it.. and then he leaves me hanging with a full Sams Club membership now. USER.. USER.. USER. He talks bad about his daughters husband says that he is using his daughter as a babysitter. I guess he would know since usually it takes a user to know a user, right? Talks about how his other daughter never visits him, doesn’t invite him to birthdays parties, how the grandbaby was in the hospital and he wasn’t even told about it. However, as I had indicated several times, the phone does work both ways and he can go visit. Heck he still has Christmas gifts under the tree for the grandbabies, why not go deliver them? Because he’s too lazy to. But can sit there and talk how much older her man is to him and they shouldn’t have anything in common. Why not hang out with family and have a BBQ. He can’t be bothered with anything. If you do find yourself in a relationship with him.. *** has to be just so. You would need a FRESH shower in order for him to go down on you, but he don’t mind asking you to give him head when he hasn’t had a fresh shower and you can actually smell dirty s*** a** on him. He doesn’t like to touch his own *****. He will rush to the bathroom to clean up. Beings that he can’t get on top of you, he will always just stand up to have ***, cause that’s the only way. His belly will get in the way and his p**** will fall out of the v*****, but he will still keep going.. but it’s always a 50/50 or less since he can’t keep an erection. He does like using his pocket p**** too. Since he bought condoms and KY for it. If you try to have a conversation with him, you can’t because if he doesn’t like it that’s the end of it. You can’t tell him how you feel there is never a solution as it’s always his way. By all his failed relationships, you can tell it’s him and not all the woman. But like any man child, it’s always that. And work, very lazy. Doesn’t want to help with anything at all. Unless it’s you helping him. He is a taker and a taker, but never a giver. His ex-mother in law wanted to visit at Christmas time, he lied to her saying they would be out of town. Why not just be honest and say, don’t want to see you or whatever. But nope, he lied. Find a real man, not this lazy a** man. He will lie and tell you what you want to hear, but when the time comes, he won’t do what he said. He doesn’t know what real love is.. he has even admitted he never grew up with hugs or being affectionate, therefore he can’t be that way either. Which really is just an excuse of a bunch of bull s***. We only argued over one thing.. Because I wanted to spend more than 16 hours a week with him.. boy was I stupid.. Best of luck to his next victim. *** It would also be nice to know WHY in January 2018 he searched ** Is there a cure for Hep C.***