Kyle J McCleish is a CHEATER, a narcissist and a compulsive Liar!. Kyle J McCleish, 40 years old, white male who is bald and lives in Chicago IL, is a cheater. He moved from Oregon to Chicago in March 2016. He lied about why he moved here and then 3 months later continued to ask me out on dates. We started dating exclusively for 6 months before I found out he had a girlfriend, THE WHOLE TIME.