So, in the military, cheating done by the spouse is fairly common. Many of the guys joke and call the other man “Jodi”. My husband was one of them that would chime in on the fun. But while I was recently deployed, guess who got himself a “Jodi”? I wouldn’t hear from him for days while I was out serving my country. Why? He was too busy messaging this second-rate ****… because he was unhappy, and she listened. Poor guy.