My husband and I had typical marriage problems that could have easily been resolved. Except, instead of putting time and energy into me, he decided to put time and energy into this s*** Kailey Jo Miller. In December he told me he no longer wanted to be with me and completely broke my heart. He would “go to the store” or stay at our mutual friend’s house almost every night despite the kids and I begging him to stay. Come to find out my husband and she has been talking behind my back since November. They work together as well so that’s how they met. The events that came after were not only hurtful but spiteful too. I was paying our cell bill and that’s how I found out about her. When I confronted her she gave me the usual “we are just friends nothing more” act, and that she won’t talk to him outside of work again. She promised. Well, a month in a half later I found out they follow each other on Instagram and like each other’s photos, that he went behind my back and got his own phone plan (just to talk to her) and his own bank account (so I couldn’t see what he was spending money on) despite promising me that he would wait until we made our final decision. One weekend when I was doing our taxes I signed on to his email to get a code and I found a hotel confirmation email and lost my sh*t. What’s messed up is when I called him bawling he sat on the phone with me for an hour and told me I was still his person and that he hates what he has done to me and that he could cry every single day. He tried to tell me he was with his co-workers but I’m not stupid. I knew he was with her because I called the front desk. When I confronted her again she tried to play it off like I was stupid and laughed at my pain. What’s even sadder is she broke up a family of 4. My daughters Sofia and Ava are 6 and 3 and my oldest is having terrible separation anxiety and tantrums because she doesn’t understand why I don’t live at home anymore. She knew that we were married and together for 11 years and she knew we had two kids. But she decided to pursue him anyway.
