We were together for ten years. Two years into marriage as my mom and nan both passed away, he became distant and combative. He started staying out all night drinking and telling me “he was sleeping on the floor of his business til sober enough to drive home.” In actuality, he was cheating on me with his store manager Lindsey Salerno. Not only did he lie repeatedly, he never even admitted it to me, even though they live together now. They run a business called Ear Emporium (on etsy and a retail location in Arcata, CA)