My ex-wife and this married man had a four and a half year affair (2017- Oct. 2018), which ultimately ended our 16-year marriage. I discovered this affair after watching our daughter’s relationship deteriorate with her mother over the course of several painful years. Finally, my daughter, now 15, confided in me that when she was nine-years-old, she found a lewd note Giacone wrote my wife. The note depicted, in graphic detail, all of the things he wanted to do to my ex’s body. Our daughter was confused and dismayed by the contents of this letter. Her innocence was shattered and she held on to this painful and confusing secret for the better part of six years because she feared breaking her daddy’s heart. The ordeal has caused her great pain and her relationship with her mother is strained beyond short-term repair.