Cheater from Constantia. He forgot to tell me that he got married again after his first divorce. I met him through a dating site and thought – great – what a fabulous charming man. But he was married – for nine years — to a wife who trusted and adored him. He just very skillfully kept her out of the picture. After six months we started talking about marriage. But he is not capable of loving or caring for anyone but himself. It’s a pity that men like this can just go on-and-on without any sense of wrongdoing.