I was married to Kevin for 10 years, together 13. We have a 10 year old son together. He is the IT guy at Connors State college. I found him this job when he was dating me and unemployed. I even filled out his application. Anyhow, he started an emotional affair with the admission clerk Heather Lindquist in his building at work. Taking her to lunch, texting and calling her all the time. She was and still is married with 2 children. When I found out he swore to stop and she was “Just a friend” “ugly” and not the type of woman he would date. In reality, they took the affair further under ground and it became sexual if it hadn’t been all along. Who knows with lying cheaters right? When I found out the second time it was 9 days before Christmas. He changed the locks on our family home kicking my son and I out. He moved the ***** in and she helped him toss out all of mine and my son’s belongings. Her husband moved to Texas and she let him take their 2 kids while she slept in my bed with my ex. Now a year later they move her 2 kids in with them and into my son’s bedroom. Our divorce decree prohibits my son from being exposed to her so now Kevin does visitation with our son at his parents house. My poor son and her 2 children are nothing but collateral damage from their selfishnesd. Thank *** for the Justice system as I received sole custody of my child. Some people are just cold, selfish, trash that lack any morals or true love. Empty shells. She is welcome to him. She is known to sleep with married men. She left her first husband to be with her second through adultery. Now she’s still married to the second but left him for my husband. She didn’t destroy my marriage and family though. He did. She was just the ***** he used because the other women he tried to cheat with wouldn’t have him. She is nothing special. If it wasn’t her he’d find somebody else. Broken people need someone has broken as they are to feel good about themselves. It’s just a shame they have no empathy for the innocent kids that have been hurt by their deceit and betrayal.