So my wife of four years cheated in me with a large and grotesque friend of hers. Of course she lied about the affair. But the evidence of her misdeeds was overwhelming. During the divorce I got stuck selling personal property to pay her off while she collected $600.00 for being on my insurance. De I should have learned my lesson the first time she cheated three months into our relationship but of course I forgave her and gave her the benefit of the doubt. I wish I hadn’t I would have saved myself a lot of grief.