she will make you feel as though you’re the only one contributing to the relationship, Im going to explain detail for detail how Claudia is a Toxic person and how she has a way of sending out the vibe that you owe her something. she also has a way of taking from you or doing something that hurts you, then maintaining she was doing it all for you.
Rather than owning her own feelings, she will act as though the feelings are yours. It’s called projection, as in projecting her feelings and thoughts onto you. For example, she is angry but won’t take responsibility for it she might accuse you of being angry with her. It might be as subtle as, ‘Are you okay with me?’ or a bit more pointed, ‘Why are you angry at me,’ or, ‘You’ve been in a bad mood all day.’
You’ll find yourself justifying and defending and often this will go around in circles – because it’s not about you I had to be really clear on what’s hers and what’s mines.
