De so after dating on and off over the past thirteen years, my husband and I decided to make it official and get married in July 2013. We already had a beautiful two year old daughter and he had helped me raise my three children from a previous marriage. We had a great life, beautiful wedding. I thought everything was perfect. I couldn’t have been more wrong, soon after the marriage I realized he had been exchanging pics with a former gf and I moved out. I tried to get him to try counseling because we had so much of a history to just throw it all away. He agreed to try it but one excuse after another… He never even gave it a chance. I tried to get him to sign the divorce papers around thanksgiving and he asked me to wait until after the holidays because he wanted to spend the holidays as a family.