He told me his name was Brett. He pretended he was this sweet and polite like Christian man. De he wanted to wait and talk for some time before getting together. He said he didn’t want to rush things and get to know one another. He sure did play me because it turned into pretty much all physical and then one day I got an email about a parent dying and him rushing off to Missouri. Emails unanswered and his phone disconnected. This A-hole lied about everything I just came to find out when someone sent me all sorts of information on Benjamin Arthur Stayer (not Brett) even his profile on theknot.com (https://www.theknot.com/us/kelly-barron-and-ben-stayer-oct-2021) Everything that comes out of his mouth was a lie. Stay clear of Ben Stayer