He is married, 61 and currently cheating with a 41 y.o. woman (his sons age) and possible more. He uses bars, online dating sites etc. De he is a pathological liar and tells the women lies to get them into a relationship with him. There are so many gullible lonely women out there and they are nothing more than prey to this type of man. A simple Google for Face Book search sometimes will at least give them basic info. but many just do not check.