I found out the man I’ve been with for 4 years, who I thought was absolutely perfect and that I could build a future with has been cheating with 2 coworkers for at least a year. They both knew about me and other is now his boss and this one has been with her boyfriend for 7 years or so (who ironically has the same name as my now-ex? Must be easier to remember?). From what I read, Shawn (my boyfriend) insinuates that he loves this one. He would tell me he’d be home at 5 or 6 but message her that he was off early and they’d go meet, *** in his car or at the house we shared if I wasn’t there or at the house she owned with her boyfriend if he wasn’t. Shawn and I had broken up a million times, any one of those he could’ve said, “I’m seeing someone else and I’m done.” I told him when we first started dating to be open and honest if he wanted to sleep with someone else. I kept trying to make it work when we would get back together. It hurt that he would always be meeting with his “work buddies” and never invite me. Now I know why. Good luck to them, I hope their future together is garbage like they are.
