Very charming at first thats how he hooks all his victims. He idealizes them then he slowly devalues them and then discards them when they have nothing left to offer and during the whole time he has numerous affairs going telling each of us how much he loves us and says he wants to make a baby with all of us and actually got a few of them pregnant but they chose not to keep the pregnancy because of how abusive he turned and all the lies and cheating its truly devastating because in the beginning he makes each of us feel so special only to devalue us! De he plans these tactics to make us feel like were going crazy but the more you read on psychopaths the more you will understand what they are doing and that its not you! His brother Anthony ** is the same way!!