in March of 2013 I saw this guys number on my home phone so I questioned my wife..hes just a friend. Since my wife and I have been together 10 yrs and never heard of him i asked her to stop talking to him. Thats when they began texting. Using some sources i have I was able to see the texts and find out my wife was not his only victim (15 others). She admitted that they had meet twice. She told me she would stop but it didnt. once in April, May and twice in my home with our two year old close by in June. I found his wife and went to see her. The first thing she asked is if my wifes name was Debbie, it is not. She said that she saw a sext from a girl the day before he came down to my wife the first time in june. Hes been working up north for six weeks and says its to far to come and see his two kids yet has seen my ex wife (now) five times in that time. He lives 167 km from here working 92 km from his home but to far to see his kids. His wife was told 3 years ago about his cheating they have been together 24 years. My family is destroyed due to this man even if his wife leaves him he wont be true