While I was still married Lisa would drive by our house. Then when my ex did leave for it, he didn’t have any contact with myself or the two children. That 1st Christmas I had to get gifts from local churches, including food. They thought they were above the law with not having to pay child support for almost a year. I know my ex wouldn’t have been so evil towards the children or me if it wasn’t for it. My situation made like the 3nd time it had done this to a “family.”