Found out June 2015 that my husband of 16 years was dating this woman. I confronted this individual and asked her point blank whether she knew he was married? She stated yes, that she knew and apparently had been dating for 2 years. He was playing me and her at the same time!! What an ugly person inside and out! So, who’s to blame for my husbands infidelity? Well, he is, he made the choice. Men would not cheat if there were not disgusting women that are ok with it! Oh, I hear she works in a public office in Lake County. You should be ashamed!