Colton Dorich — California

Colton Dorich is an abusive monster with narcissistic personality disorder. Don’t let him rope you in with his deceptive superficial likeable-ness. He is a manipulative sociopath and he is dangerously sadistic and ruthless. I spent years letting him sponge off of me, desperately trying to inspire him to feel empathy. He destroyed my entire life, and inflicted damage so severe, I may never recover. He has gotten me evicted from two apartments by trashing the inside and turning neighbors and landlords against me(i was homeless for a long time because of this), He destroyed all of my personal property (some of it had a lot of monetary value) during violent outbursts. He constantly subjected me to the worst emotional torment and psychological abuse imaginable, I felt so worthless and weak, I couldnt bear the thought of leaving him. On increasingly rare occasions, he would be very sweet, just enough to give me hope that we could work things out and have a decent life together. When we were living in a motorhome, every single morning he would wake up and immediately become enraged, he spat on my face so frequently it became a morning ritual, he beat me constantly, and smashed walls and cabinets and broke anything he could lift. He stole from me all the time. There was an incident when I woke up at 5 am and said “Im cold” and he responded by saying “well im not sharing this blanket”, to which I replied by calmly saying “fine”. I walked to the door so I could get something out of my car, and suddenly he was on top of me. he tackled me from behind and put me in a stranglehold. I reacted automatically by biting him in the shoulder, and then he spun me around and elbowed me in the mouth, breaking a chunk out of one of my teeth, then he twisted my arm behind my back and bit my wrist until I bled heavily. There was another incident where we were arguing, about a half-hour before I was scheduled to drive him to work, and he threw my dog out the front door of the rv. I ran outside to retrieve her, and he grabbed me, tore all of my clothes off of my body so that I was naked, then he dragged me back into the rv and beat me until I was barely conscious, and then he threw me in the closet and leaned against the door,holding it shut while I pounded on the door and begged him for mercy. he finally let go of the closet door when some woman knocked on the door and informed us that my dog had been hit by a car and she was now dead. I loved that dog, she was my best friend in the world. I was so broken and devastated, but every time I cried he would hit me. There was another incident where he slammed a door on my pet cats head, shattering her skull. All he ever said about it was “That cat was a s*** anyway. quit crying about it like shes your long lost love”. He never showed any remorse whatsoever for killing an innocent animal. Finally,(june 26 2012) one morning after we stayed at my parents house (He had recently ripped a doorframe out of the wall of their guest room and broken the window there)when I was sick and trying to sleep in, he demanded that I wake up and drive him to chick-fil-a and buy him food (he doesnt have a license or a car of his own) I said I needed a half-hour. At the end of this half-hour, I asked for a few more minutes, and he lost his temper and pulled the couch I was sleeping on out from under me, and then dropped it on top of me. when I stood up he jumped over the couch and beat the **** out of me, grabbed my keys and ten dollars out of the jar of money I was saving to pay off a fine for him so he could get a drivers license and ran out the bedroom door. I waited for a moment, then slowly opened the door to see if he was really gone, and he kicked it into me as hard as he could and charged back into the room. I tried to flee to the opposite corner of the room but he tackled me from behind, grabbed me in a bear-hug, pushed my head forward so hard that my face was against my chest, and picked me up, squeezing me and shaking me as hard as he could before dropping me onto the floor. I was momentarily paralyzed, and he picked me up, looked me in the eyes, and said “I want you to die, alone and miserable, in a great deal of pain”. He tore ligaments in my spine and caused me serious neurological injury. I now have severe post traumatic stress, and I live my life in constant excruciating pain. I get severe nerve pain and migraines, and I have to wear sunglasses all the time because of how sensitive my eyes are to light now. For a year and a half after the day he injured my spine, He had absolutely no contact with me, except for one time two months after the assault when he called me and asked me to post bail when he got arrested in ventura county for manufacturing drugs with his new girlfriend, and he had fraudulently given the police my address and contact info as his own. In January of 2013, he caused an explosion in a hotel in point loma while manufacturing drugs, and badly burned himself. I got a call from the ucsd hospital billing office, and they were attempting to hold me financially responsible for his medical expenses. one year later, in january of 2014, he was scheduled to go to jail for a year. Four days before he was supposed to report to the courthouse, He called me and asked me to meet with him, so he could give me the closure I deserved. Somehow in that time, he convinced me that he had learned to be a better man, and persuaded me to take him back, and abandon my new relationship to wait for him. with how helpless he had already trained me to feel, I didnt have the inner strength to resist his manipulation. I supported him the whole time he was locked up, wrote to him every day, visited him twice a week, and sent him anything he asked for. When he was scheduled to be released from jail, they decided to send him to rehab. I stuck by him through that as well, but when he got out of rehab, he started becoming the same callous, abusive person that was my undoing in the first place. He quickly discarded me as soon as he had someone else to hang out with. After everything he had done to hurt me, and everything I had done to support and help him, He chewed me up and spit me out all over again. He views every human being as a target for manipulation, he uses people and then stabs them in the back. I just cannot accept that people as evil as him exist outside of fiction. I swear that I am a sane person with a sound mind (except for how severely traumatized and afflicted with stockholme syndrome I am) and I am not a drug addict. I pray that anyone who might consider a future with him reads this and saves themselves before it is too late. Colton Dorich ruined my life.